How to deal with a classmate who doesn't want to go to school

          

 C: MJ EDILLOR, VINCENT VALLE, CARE.COM   

                  “Work hard, be kind and amazing things will happen.”
                                                            – Conan O'Brien.
                  
             The school is our second home we consider our teachers as secondary parents and our classmates as brothers and sisters. Children are sent to school to be educated and be well-mannered. Although most schools are only focusing on making students smart instead of making them into a well mannered child. Most people still believe that being smart is equivalent to being a well-mannered person. But that is not the case because i've seen children sacrificing their education for a good reason. And that is to help themselves in-order to save money and survive.

 Here are the steps.

1.) TALK TO HIM. Talk to him with full confidence with all your advices prepared. At first he might be scared to talk about his/her problems so that's why you have to start the conversation slowly.
2.) ASK WHAT ARE HIS PROBLEMS. In-order to give the advices you've prepared, asking what his problems are another thing that needs to keep an eye into.
3.) GO DEEP WITH THE PROBLEM. Having a deeper conversation with the person that needs help and the problem is a key to solve the problem. Because I believe that going deeper with the problem and know every possible mistake on that problem means a lot to your since you're the one solving and dealing with his /her problem.
4.) START HANDING OUT THE ADVICES. Give out the advices that you've prepared because the more Advices you give out, the more he be relieved and be more confident to solve that problem. Because According to the researchers, the reason that giving out advice may boost motivation starts from a bump in confidence that comes with simply being asked to deliver the advice...
5.) BE HIS FRIEND. Another thing to gather more information is to be friends with that person because being friends with that person means he would trust you more with the problems he would give.
6.) SAY POSITIVE THINGS. Start giving our some compliments and quotes that would make him more relaxed and positive. Because giving him these would make him/her confident and motivation boosted.
7.) And there you have it, that is how you give advices to people that doesn't want to go to school.


            Being hard working is equivalent to being smart. This means that even though you are as dumb as a cow you can still change by being a hardworking person. If you start going for success you will fail ten times, a hundred times, maybe even a thousand times but that's okay. Failing isn't permanent. Falling isn't permanent. You're gonna comeback more wiser, confident and stronger as you've ever been. That's just how it is.